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The Dangerous Comfort of Hoping and Wishing
I have an important question to ask you. This is a question that’s best answered from your gut, not your head. Take a deep breath, put log...
Gratitude Can Be Practical
For years I’ve heard people talk about how gratitude has helped them in life. By perhaps starting the day thinking about the things they’re gra...
Finding Your Competitive Fingerprint
The number of ways you can be successful in trading and poker is staggering. Walk down the driving range at any PGA Tour stop, or your local...
Intensity Takes a Toll
Every day you put your money at risk. Your goals and aspirations are on the line. Preparation needs to be sharp. Adaptation and continual im...
Seeing the Forest for the Trees
Clients often describe struggling with Tilt, fear, overconfidence, second-guessing, overthinking, greed, self-criticism, or a lack of confidence li...
Golf is Not 90% Mental
The old adage that golf is 90% mental is wrong. Thinking this way is like still playing with hickory shafts or a balata ball. The game evolves. So ...
New Book: Everyday Golf Psychology
I’m excited to announce that my latest book, Everyday Golf Psychology, will be available April 21st! Three years in the making and I couldn’...
Risky Business
Risk is everywhere. From leisure activities, like renting a paddleboard, skydiving, or taking your kids to a trampoline park, to driving a car, ope...
Boom & Bust
Boom or bust. Feast or famine. If you deal with extreme ups and downs in your performance, you know exactly what this feels like. You’ll h...
Everything Gets Easier When Your Goals are Right
I talk a lot about goals, particularly around this time of year as we set our sights on the opportunities before us. I talk a lot about goals bec...
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Competing to Win – And What the Battle Often Looks Like
Discussions about the act of competing can be hard because it all sounds so cliche: Play hard, just go out there and compete, leave it all on the...
Conquering Nerves and Unlocking Your Potential
Last month I went to The Players Championship, the fifth biggest golf tournament in the world behind the four majors, to work with a client...
The Fear of Success
For some of you, the idea of fearing success sounds absurd. How could anyone fear the very thing we all want to achieve? Yet it’s more common...
Truly Understanding C-game
As you think about your goals for this year, it’s a great time to remind yourself about the realities of C-game. Do you have a good...
Goals Set the Stage at Any Stage
All of you are here because you want more. More success. More improvement. More control over your emotions. More mental freedom and more peak level...